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Wilfrid Rylance was born on the 27th March 1874, and
educated in the school here from 1887 to 1803, when he was admitted to the
novitiate as Brother Theodore. Two younger brothers, the late Fr
Romuald and Fr Cyril, who happily survived him, later became monks of
Downside.
He was ordained in 1901. He was an exceptionally hard worker
and a devoted teacher who spared no pains to get his classes
on. One associates him with masses of 'gelatined' notes
wherewith lie supplemented or replaced the textbooks, and with untiring
vigour on the football field. He could be gay and humorous,
but lie was always a shy man; and this, together with his grimly ascetic
appearance, tended to make him seem unapproachable. He had in fact his
full share of sociability, but he was infrequently able to gratify it.
However, he was a highly valued member of the community, which penetrated,
as communities do, the phenomena and appreciated the real man
underneath. In 1906 he was sent out to work in the parishes
and was stationed successively at St Alban's and St Benedict's in
Warrington, at St Mary's, Brownedge, St Anne's, Liverpool, and at
Workington.
In 1925 lie was put in charge at Abergavenny, and four years later at
Lostock Hall.
There he remained for thirteen years, finding much that was congenial in
the firm hold on principle and strict fidelity to practice of unspoilt Lancashire.
From his pulpit and in private he defended and promoted that spirit and
vehemently rebuked any decline to lower standards.
Consequently his people looked up to him with confidence and respect: but
only those he had tended in distress really loved him: they had seen
another and a different side of him.
In 1942 he was moved to Knaresborough and three years
later to Lee House. He was tiring now, and the peace of the
little parish gave him great contentment and ample opportunity for manual
labour with pick and shovel. In 1956 his bodily weakness put
an end to his active life and he had to accept the unwelcome role of
invalid. He bore this patiently without self-pity, and died quietly on the
16th March 1958. By the desire of his late parishioners at
Lostock Hall he was buried there. The large attendance at his funeral
although it was sixteen years since lie left the parish, showed how strong
and lasting an impression lie had made. May lie rest in peace. |